28 May 2026

Wave🤝 Particle

The observer effect says
nothing remains untouched
by the act of being seen.

Even electrons lose their 
composure under attention.
As if observation itself
demands performance.

Photons colliding. Detectors 
interfering. Measurements
leaving fingerprints
upon being measured-

As if the universe, when 
watched too carefully,
forgets how to remain fluid.

Perhaps that is why
I fear being understood
too completely.
Maybe people are not
so different from particles.

Leave us unobserved
and we remain expansive-
contradictory, wave-like,
full of unrealized selves.

But the moment someone 
demands certainty.
asks us to define our exact 
trajectory, 
something collapses-
We harden into identities.

Tell me how much of love
survives observation?
How much tenderness
disappears the moment
we try too hard to name it?

Perhaps intimacy itself
is a delicate experiment.

Too much scrutiny,
and the mystery recoils.
Too much definition,
and affection stiffens
into expectation.

Maybe that is why some 
feelings survive longer
in glances, half-finished 
sentences, and lingering 
silences.

Because the moment we 
drag them fully into language,
they stop behaving like 
wonder and start behaving 
like witnesses under oath.